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July 2025

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: “We think that the point is to pass the test or overcome the problem, but the truth is that things …

: The dog sleeps, dream barking in her bed, paws twitching as she runs who knows where…

: “We go on—not upward, not forward, but just on…” — Anon

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: “The self doesn’t produce thoughts, it’s thoughts that produce the self.” — Robert Saltzman

: Three friends have each had a dear pet pass away in the last three days 😞

: Why would we trust positive thoughts any more than negative ones? Why one set of stories over …

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: “I myself was the murderer and the murdered.” — Carl Jung

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: Working with individuals that have a wide range of neurodivergent conditions including bio polar, …

: Not something yet not nothing.

: A kind of magic Just want to make a quick shout out/ thank you/ mention to @manton for the ease with which I was …

: Consciousness is not a problem to be solved. That’s like a ruler trying to measure itself. …

: Our greatest teacher is always with us, for it is no more and no less than the present moment.

: Fresh dew soaked morning after the rain. The dog sleeping soundly after breakfast. Silent house.

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: It doesn’t take much reflection to reveal how much of our experience is made up of our opinions …

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: This morning, gentle rain. The brook babbles a little louder. Cars hiss by while the dog snores.

: If we don’t assimilate and integrate traditional ancient wisdom into the ordinary reality of our own …

: Paying close attention to our mind and the myriad thoughts that arise, it’s possible to see the …

: So much unnecessary fear, anxiety and suffering (as well as groundless hope and optimism) is caused …

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: “Finding meaning is merely a matter of finding a better story. Stories put your pains and pleasures …

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: “You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never …

: “Here is not an ‘Either-Or’ crossover but, rather, a ‘Both-And’ revelation.” — Dennis Gallagher

: Non duality “Non-Duality. That place where we see that the One manifests as the many and the many are …

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: Happiness has nothing to do with pleasure.

: There was a time (even before the printed word) it was thought that the written word signalled the …

: Our thoughts and ideas are the least of us. Always late to the party that’s already in full swing, …

: “In my psychotherapy practice, I saw this play out daily. Clients spoke of loneliness, but what they …

: Spot the difference between: “Is this all there is?” and “You mean there’s all this?!”

: “We don’t have ideas. Ideas have us.” — Carl Jung

: Where do you want to be? I work with someone who spends all of their time on holiday despite actually being on holiday for …

: “When you argue with reality, you lose, but only 100% of the time.” — Byron Katie

: How to be unhappy Compare yourself to others Compare the present with the past and the future Believe your thoughts …

: “I speak not of transcendence, but of what shimmers before the mind moves to name it. Not the …

: “The way out of our cage begins with accepting absolutely everything about ourselves and our lives.” …

: There is no thought, idea, concept or story that can survive the raw actuality of experience. Not …

: Self interest is a dead end.

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: “Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it.” — Haruki Murakami

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: “Silence is not freedom from sounds. Silence is not freedom from thoughts. Silence is freedom from …

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June 2025

: “…it becomes vividly clear that in concrete fact I have no other self than the totality of things of …

: Looking back over old journal entries from years ago I see a completely different person. …

: Ouch This morning I stubbed my toe. Badly. You know, the kind that hurts beyond all reason. The stubbing …

: “No memory, no problem.”

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: We all take our feelings very seriously but what are they?

: What stories are we all telling ourselves this morning?

: After a hectic weekend at work enjoying a slightly slower start this morning with coffee and a cool …

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: “I’ve lived through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.” — Mark Twain

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: We project our trance onto the machine and find it blinking back. This is the danger: not that …

: This old girl is 16 years and 3 months young. She just keeps on truckin… photo thumbnail

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: Things are finite. Being is infinite.

: “Do you think that I count the days? There is only one day left, always starting over: it is given …

: It’s fascinating to watch how quickly and automatically direct experience is transformed into a …

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: “One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness …

: ”Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final.” — Rainer …

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: You can only wake up to your own life.

: “My job is not to run around doing things. I am a human being, not a human doing.” — Paradigm shift

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: Thinking is great fun. Watching thoughts pop up out of nowhere and then disappear again just as …

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: “Light only has meaning when it illuminates something dark and enlightenment is no good unless it …

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: “Any idea we have right here and now of what next looks like, is a painting made by our mind, and …

: Looking forward to this. Shifty, the new film/ series from Adam Curtis. UK only I fear 😕 photo thumbnail

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: “When we turn 40 we stop saying ‘hi’ and start saying ‘bye’. — Martin Amis

: The point of utopias and dystopias is that we end up somewhere in the middle. What we fail to …

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: We cannot rid ourselves of anything that happens because we are everything that happens.

: Perhaps the greatest piece of advice ever, from Carl Jung, of course 😉 One lives as one can…”

: “The observer is the observed and therein lies sanity, the whole.” — Jiddu Krishnamurti

: The shift from a busy, confused and overwhelmed mind to that of open, clear, spaciousness is …

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: “The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.” — Tara Brach

: Being alive is the only adventure.

: At meditation this evening I felt an exquisite intensity of the moment – of everything happening all …

: “When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the Universe.” …

: “Different strokes for different folks or for different moments. One moment you need Zen. The next …

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: Things go away. Everything is always here.

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: Ever tried looking for yourself and not come up with either thoughts, ideas, stories, memories or …

: Nothing has to happen yet everything does.

: Recognising the eternal now is exquisitely palpable yet utterly ungraspable. Reality is fully …

: Even in contemplative/ meditative spheres there is a tendency to fetishise certain conditions, like …

: Whatever progress may or may not be, it is only made when one drops the idea of making any.

: Today will be spent mostly hauling building waste to the dump. Oh, and coffee of course. And maybe a …

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: “The mark of the moderate man, according to the Tao, is that he has no ideas about himself. None. …

: You can’t do what is already being done. You can’t become what you already are. You can’t allow what …

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: Spiritual/ meditative/ contemplative insights are not reserved for sacred texts, ancient traditions, …

: The presence or not of suffering is beside the larger point that there is anything to experience at …

: “You’re on Earth. There’s no cure for that.” — Samuel Beckett

: What is lost in the individual tends to be society’s gain and vice versa.

: Everything, including you, is just happening without any effort whatsoever.

: There are no distractions. Only a seamless continuum of experience.

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: “In my estimation, the wisest among us are those who live without answers to ultimate questions, …

: There’s what you should do, what you shouldn’t do and what you’re going to do anyway.

: Body feeling battered this morning so attempting to take it easy today before work tomorrow

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: Challenging but amazing yoga session this morning and then six hours hacking and wrestling the …

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: “You can only be afraid of what you think you know.” — Jiddu Krishnamurti

: Who am I? What am I? In all honesty, only everything that is happening.

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: “The cure for the pain is in the pain.” — Rūmī

: We will remain forever blind to the unintended consequences of our actions be they good or ill.

: “Why do you meditate?” “To see what happens.”

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May 2025

: “We go on—not upward, not forward, but just on…” — Anon

: There is no elephant in the room. The elephant is the room.

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: Recognising the difference between thinking you are a thing to which other things happen and being …

: At the close of meditation this evening this thought, somewhat paradoxically popped up, ‘…the …

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: “Happiness can exist only in acceptance.” — George Orwell

: It is said that AI doesn’t know what it’s doing or how it’s doing it. I would suggest that neither …

: Bring the noise Sitting in silence and stillness is all very nice but there is nothing intrinsic to these conditions …

: Adam Curtis’ new series ‘Shifty’ looks fun.

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: “The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” — George …

: “If we trust life, we know this for a fact: Everything that happens, happens for the best.” — Trust

: “Don’t miss what is here now, in wishing it was otherwise.” — Andō

: You can’t be what you are if you think of yourself as anything in particular.

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: ”I am not one and simple, but complex and many.” — Virginia Woolf

: Sitting quietly in my car Drinking coffee Cars hiss in the distance Nothing to be done

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: So apparently Apple is a successful international technology company. And it also appears that their …

: The sad thing about getting promoted to the Premier League is the inevitable dissolution of the …

: “Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.” — …

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: A day of chores, chopping wood and carrying water. Not really, more like laundry and mowing the lawn …

: “I believe in kindness. Also in mischief. Also in singing, especially when singing is not …

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: “Living itself means nothing other than being questioned; our whole act of being is nothing more …

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: Good morning. It’s been raining. photo thumbnail

: What is here, now? Nothing less than your whole life. Everything that could possibly be happening for you is right …

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: Does contemplation have a place in the world? ”We don’t need more teachers, we need more …

: ”The universe is wider than our views of it.” — Henry David Thoreau

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: Contemplatively/ meditatively speaking, the secret to getting somewhere is to go nowhere.

: “Humans love to add, to expand, and to clarify. And in doing so, we create complexity… The irony is …

: “Wherever you are, is the place you need to be.” — Anon

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: The end of a tiring week of work. Pretty knackered but, as always, rewarded and fulfilled. The …

: ”No matter how many years you sit doing zazen, you will never become anything special.” — …

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: “You never truly need what you want. That is the main and thoroughgoing key to serenity. — Albert …

: Contemplation runs through all of life.

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: I don’t know anything about tech but this made me smile Justfuckingusehtml

: This month’s cult cinema club is showing Pedro Almodovar’s Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown … photo thumbnail

: Not being bullied At school I was a prime target for bullies. To avoid the inevitable I somehow managed to develop a …

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: “Before I studied Zen, mountains were mountains and rivers were rivers. When I had studied Zen for …

: Where are you?

: ‘TIL THE END I’m not going to get carried away by my team, Sunderland AFC, making it to the playoff final at … photo thumbnail

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: Spent the day battling the garden and have the bramble scars to show for it! Exhausted but glad to … photo thumbnail

: ”I have been filled with hopes, fears, despairs, longings, happiness. Expansive moments, contracting …

: The Assembly Originally a one off on the BBC but now a series on ITV, The Assembly is currently my favourite TV … photo thumbnail

April 2025

: There are few greater pleasures than sitting in the sun, with a gentle breeze, favoured drink of …

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: The wild garlic by the brook is blooming. photo thumbnail

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: Making the most of the last rays after work. photo thumbnail

: Feel what you feel, don’t feel what you think.

: I have always, mysteriously, loved Magnolias without having any idea why. This shone some light on … photo thumbnail

: Am I the only one who finds the Tapestry app ugly? I’m sure it’s technically amazing but it just …

: There’s a difference between being comfortable in your own skin and being pleased with yourself. The …

: The most pertinent questions AI raises are about us. What are we?

: We must make our experiment. We must make mistakes. We must live out our own version of life. And …

: Now, more than ever, cultivating resilience is perhaps our most important endeavour.

: The ego is the workshop where the self is made. — Carl Jung

: Experience is a spectrum not a hierarchy.

March 2025

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: The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. — George …

: Despite being a massive fan of Armando Iannucci and Steve Coogan I didn’t overly enjoy their stage …

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: “It is by no means certain that the man with good intentions is under all circumstances a good man. …

: “When a man lacks self-knowledge, he can do the most astonishing or terrible things without calling …

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: This was 16 yesterday. No more mountains or hikes left in her but she keeps on trucking, ever more … photo thumbnail

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: “Don’t try to create and analyse at the same time, they’re different processes.” — Corita Kent

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: The glory of a beautiful Spring day would not exist if not for all the bleak, grey winter ones that …

: Investigate, question, examine, interrogate anything for long enough and sooner or later it …

: We educate and pass on our values to our children not by lecturing but by example, how we live, how …

: We could almost be forgiven for thinking Spring is in the air…

: A civil and humane society is held together and sustained less by its laws than by the everyday acts …

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: Tonight Toast bringing her door stop skills. photo thumbnail

: “The journey into the self, into the nameless and the formless, is first and last an act of …

: A still, cool and unnervingly quiet day out there… Off to see Mother Vera later at the Borderlines … photo thumbnail

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: Extraordinary. She’s not underneath anything. photo thumbnail

: Let no idea take you hostage lest you develop Stockholm syndrome to an ideology.

: So, not altogether unpredictably I ended taking an unscheduled ice bath by falling into the brook! …

: Coffee first and then I have to chop/ prune/ wrestle a fallen tree out of the brook. Typically I …

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: Huh. Never heard of Próspera before until I read this. When hell looks like a Caribbean holiday.

: “Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.” — …

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: Humans are optimised for survival not truth.

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: Toast has claimed her spot and is not moving. photo thumbnail

: Another beautiful day out there. What feels like a balmy 12 degrees, a gorgeous blue sky scuffed …

: Lovely post, as always, from Mike Farley at An Open Ground. “Part of the trouble, it seems to me, …

: “Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn’t go away.” — Philip K. Dick

: “In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer.” — Albert Camus

: “I don’t know… I think I’d like to say only that they (children) should learn to be alone and try to …

: It’s become very clear that my mind is incapable of thinking geo-politically or in terms of …

: “One has to discover everything for oneself. And get over it all alone.” — Too-Ticky/ Tove Jansson

: “Reality does not need to be solved. It does not require a conclusion. The mind may demand answers, …

: Looking forward to this. So many comedy heroes, particularly Chris Morris. Imagine

: “Why is it that so few people follow their own star? Why is the star such a heavy burden? Because …

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: If we really, really accept and embrace the reality of our finitude, our death; then our being, our …

: Few things have upset me as much recently as seeing Trump and his henchmen ambush Zelensky in such a …

: “Thoughts are natural events that you do not possess, and whose meaning you only imperfectly …

: Controversial/ contrarian opinion alert! Care is more important than love. I’ve seen so many people …

: If you are lonely when you are alone, you are in bad company. — Jean-Paul Sartre

: A price is being paid by millions simply from one man growing up with wealth, privilege and …

: What a world. Went to bed last night having watched a tiny, frightened, weak and cowardly bully … photo thumbnail

February 2025

: I absolutely adore this photo. NightSatoru Hasegawa … photo thumbnail

: Went to a new meditation session this evening at the local yoga centre. Really good. …

: “Memory is a liar. It’s a heap of dog-eared, smudged, incessantly revised fictions.” — Peter …

: Back to work tomorrow and it’s my weekend to work. Here’s hoping the sun keeps shining and the land …

: There must always be humour. Some way, somehow humour must be allowed.

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: Zen doesn’t answer questions, it dissolves them.

: It’s a beautiful day out there. A walk across the fields in the sunshine for coffee seems like a …

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: “Meditation is not about becoming a better person or a more spiritual person. It’s about becoming a …

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: I enjoy Day One Journal’s On This Day feature popping up, as it does, entries from years past. The …

: “You’re on Earth. There’s no cure for that.” — Samuel Beckett, Happy Days

: “The point of Zen is not to escape life, but to live it completely, to taste fully the richness, the …

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: The brook is back to running low and clear now. photo thumbnail

: It’s relatively easy to live with other people compared to living openly and honestly with oneself.

: Whatever a tree does, whatever a fly does, whatever the sea does, whatever a penguin does, whatever …

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: “Meditation/ contemplation is the discovery that the point of life is always arrived at in the …

: I like being in art galleries in the same way I like being in churches. And I like having no idea …

: “If we have one job in times like this, it is to be bearers, through our careful grief, of love, of …

: So, made it into work after all, dodging lots of standing water most of the way. Thought it would be …

: The only teacher you need, and that never goes away, is the present moment.

: The brook now running brown and a little faster and higher. Another twelve hours of this rain and …

: “It boils down to waking up moment to moment. Being present, open, unprotected. Allowing the …

: Wet and windy out there so keeping warm and dry indoors watching the footie. Newcastle flying …

: “And that to me is the healthy heart of contemplation (a.k.a. meditation). It’s an allowing. It’s a …

: I swapped the sea for mountains and rivers and thought I’d regret it but have never looked back.

: Lovely evening watching our favourite local band, Peiriant, play a homecoming gig. And, bonus, … photo thumbnail

: What a glorious sunny day. Yoga, coffee, fixed gutter, coffee, fires, logs, laundry, 5k run, lunch … photo thumbnail

: ”Now is simply now. You are simply you. And tell me, since you want to leave the place where you …

: “…today’s ‘self-realisation’ might be tomorrow’s ‘what the hell was I thinking?’” — Robert Saltzman

: There is no elephant in the room. The elephant is the room.

: The whole idea of so-called ‘Productivity’ is, not only just plain bullshit, but a distraction from …

: As I periodically do from time to time, I’ve mercilessly stripped out loads of feeds from my Reader. …

: “The right time is any time that one is still so lucky as to have.” — Henry James

: Boredom is wanting something that isn’t there. Contentment is having everything when nothing is …

: Madrid are a cat toying with City as if they’re a mouse.

: RMAMCI Game over…?

: Apropos something completely unrelated, a couple of words popped up that accurately describe my …

: As far as philosophy is concerned I’ve always thought Wittgenstein drew a rather neat line under the …

: Over the years (since around 1999) I’ve had countless blogs (ie. I’ve lost count). Using, in no …

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: Fires, logs, laundry, shopping, pharmacy, run and walk across the fields into town for coffee. photo thumbnail

: What stories and narratives of self will you be holding onto as you’re dying? Which begs the rather …

: Wow, a Red Kite just swooped down onto the road in front of me to grab a scrap of roadkill. I slowed …

: “People don’t have ideas, ideas have people.” — Carl Jung

: It’s a strange feeling being surrounded by people who seem to have a lot to say about everything …

: “Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word ‘happy’ would lose its …

: What an extraordinary morning. Seeing the actual sun for the first time in what feels like many … photo thumbnail

: The specific qualities of experience pale in comparison to the simple presence of everything, the …

: “Embrace your losses as fair payment for the surplus of being alive.” — Kieran Setiya

: I wholly disapprove of what you say—and will defend to the death your right to say it. — Evelyn …

: Never confuse your own character and personality with those of the society and culture in which you …

: My favourite Prince anecdote comes from an interview when he was asked what Rolling Stones song he …

: Been revisiting Prince for the first times in ages. For my money, throughout the six year period …

: Really savouring Mary Oliver’s Dog Songs. Great poet that she is, she manages to convey the human …

: “Awakening is highly overrated. And it is credited with a lot more than it is actually responsible …

: I’m finding it enormously freeing and conducive to a profound lightness of being to not try and hold …

: If one is in the business of finding answers to life then, if they exist at all, they surely reside …

: Logs chopped and laundry done, now just time for coffee and cake before a late shift.

: Only when that time comes, then and only then will we know what we will do and who we are.

: Enough is more than everything.

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: The best advice ever: There’s what you should do, there’s what you shouldn’t do and there’s what …

: Not living anywhere near London anymore I’m really excited to have got tickets to see the National … photo thumbnail

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: In terms of one’s immediate phenomenological experience in this moment, there is no difference …

: Woe betide anyone who thinks they know better.

: …the right-populist turn seems to be the effect of improved material, and especially technological, …

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: My wife is doing an MA in Contemporary Craft. This little window into academia is slowly but surely …

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: “We suffer from the delusion that the entire universe is held in order by the categories of human …

: Fire lit. Dog fed. Feet up. Footie on…

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: “Churches speak most convincingly when there’s no one in them.” — Keith Ashford

: “Can we imagine a life with no content?” — More, please

: Great episode of A New Way Of Being podcast, interview with Shiv Sengupta, a writer I have a lot of …

: A rainy, grey day. Yet there is egg, bacon and coffee at my local cafe before the cleaning of fires, …

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: “I have nothing to say and I am saying it and that is poetry as I need it.” — John Cage

: So today was spent mostly getting dirty, taking stuff to the recycling centre, clearing up after the …

: The problem with pleasure.

: So this old girl (16 in March) got her new meds and top up jabs (oh, and treat or two from the vet) … photo thumbnail

: Can’t believe I’ve only just now been introduced to the amazing Lola Young, thanks to my wife who …

: Our unconscious exerts itself on us whether we want it to or not. Indeed, the degree to which we …

: “Both men are conspicuous for the degree to which they still resemble children, having retained a …

: “You can’t define a person. You can’t sum anyone up. Life is non-summative—it is infinite.” — James …

: The Dark Enlightenment is now happening, live.

: There is no avoiding anything. Everything reaches you in the end.

: “The real truth, that dare not speak itself, is that no one is in control. Absolutely no one.” — …

: “Original experience has not been interpreted for you, and so you’ve got to work out your life for …

: What we are does not exist in language. Not everything has a story. Not everything needs a story.

: In every fleeting moment question and answer are the same thing.

: “We shall not cease from exploration And the end of all our exploring Will be to arrive where we …

January 2025

: Tonight is Severance night. Loved Season 1 and I’m carrying on watching it but I’m beginning to kind …

: To bastardise/ rewrite Alan Watts: “Poetry is perhaps our greatest folly. The art of saying what …

: Maturity, at any age, is nothing more than realising that both you and life are not what you thought …

: “If one is looking for final answers and somehow, unfortunately, finds them, that is religion, not …

: Feel I have to give another shout out to The Kissing of Kissing: Poems (Multiverse) by Hannah …

: “When we live our life as a whole, there is no longer an aspect that gets singled out as …

: And suddenly the smallest mounds became hills to die on…

: “No war was ever started by someone who couldn’t give a fuck either way.” — John Cooper Clarke

: “How can I be substantial without casting a shadow? I must have a dark side too if I am to be whole; …

: Nothing in particular to do today. Got a run of long shifts coming up so taking the opportunity to …

: “One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness …

: Yoga this evening was part brutal, part glorious with moments of hilarity. All life was there.

: “Thus to enter a realm of immediate experience is most stimulating for those who have done their …

: “This may be no more than his household, his own tortured psyche, or the lives that he blights with …

: The one thing I know. I don’t know anything.

: “One lives as one can…” — Carl Jung, Your questions are unanswerable

: Today: cleaning out fires, chopping logs, laundry, signing off on our roof work and then maybe a 5k …

: Not integrating and assimilating traditional ancient wisdom into the ordinary reality of your own …

: The closest I came to an esoteric or so-called spiritual experience when I was a child was when, …

: Another variation on the same theme. “Just being alive is enough.” — Shunryu Suzuki

: The absurdity of accumulating and hanging onto items, things, stuff…

: I love Joan Tollifson.

: Flipboard’s new Surf app is all very nice now but it will just turn to shit, like Flipboard did, …

: Consciousness and phenomena are so intertwined, interdependent and co-emergent as to be …

: “Suffering doesn’t disappear from life, it disappears into life.” — Barry Magid, Ordinary Mind …

: Being/ life is exactly what it is, exactly what it appears to be in each moment and yet we have no …

: “The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, …

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: The more one learns about the great spiritual traditions in tandem with examining the raw …

: SUERZA n. a feeling of quiet amazement that you exist at all; a sense of gratitude that you were …

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: “It is in the nature of political bodies always to see the evil in the opposite group, just as the …

: Words always fail. Sometimes beautifully, sometimes catastrophically.

: So. What a weekend. We had workmen doing repairs on the roof last week that didn’t get finished and …

: The restless, seeking mind settles when it realises there’s nothing to find.

: Get out of your own way and let yourself unfold…

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: “Where I am, I don’t know, I’ll never know, in the silence you don’t know, you must go on, I can’t …

: Looking forward to getting back to the meditation group tomorrow. A series of consecutive late …

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: “No, it isn’t. No combination of words can be a fact because words are not facts and facts are not …

: “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place. — George …

: I don’t know if this makes any sense but, ‘react’ and ‘respond’ are not synonymous. For me a …

: There’s no cure for being human.

: Wherever we go, whatever we do we always take ourselves with us.

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: Ignorance and certainty. Wisdom’s way: Believe nothing. Doubt everything. — Twins

: “To remain still, to turn from knowing to simple awareness – without choosing, without direction, in …

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: “I’ve lived through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.” — Mark Twain

: “In other living creatures ignorance of self is nature; in man it is vice.” — Boethius

: If we allow them the vicissitudes of life make us instead of break us.

: “Thoughts are natural events that you do not possess, and whose meaning you only imperfectly …

: “The advantage of so-called ‘free will’ is indeed so obvious that civilized man is easily persuaded …

: The best teacher is always the present moment no matter what is happening.

: Feel what you feel, don’t feel what you think.

: You can’t edit life. You’re either all in or all out.

: Look close enough and all things disappear.

: The problem is all the arguments and conflicts between people who think they have the ultimate …

: Booked tickets to see Robert Eggers' remake of Nosferatu on Tuesday. Can’t wait!

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: Sadly I’m struggling to find a way to watch David Lynch’s Eraserhead and Lost Highway. It seems …

: “Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people. It …

: “Man’s fate has always swung between day and night. There is nothing we can do to change this.” — …

: “Deeply ingrained in the infantile psyche is the conscious or unconscious assumption that the cure …

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: “We should not try to “get rid” of a neurosis, but rather to experience what it means, what it has …

: “If you look for meaning, you miss what happens.” — Andrei Tarkovsky

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: RIP David Lynch. Things were never quite the same after seeing Eraserhead.

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: “Needing to have reality confirmed and experience enhanced by photographs is an aesthetic …

: No matter how small and simple a life may appear to be, it is whole and infinite.

: We are not Black Holes. Our darkness does not consume light. Rich and fertile, it is the very stuff …

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: “Only what is really oneself has the power to heal.” — Carl Jung

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: “…we uncover the essential impermanence of everything that arises; and that of course includes …

: ‘Just enough’ technology seems exactly the right amount. Or of anything for that matter.

: The only way I found that successfully dealt with the whole To Do/ Tasks/ Lists farrago was to get …

: The new Reeder app is an extraordinary product I can highly recommend. A unified timeline of just …

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: Where would we be without the darkness?

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: The problems caused by thought are not solved by more thinking.

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: All the problems we face, ranging from the most intimate and private right through to the biggest …

: “When you surrender, the problem ceases to exist. Try to solve it, or conquer it, and you only set …

: “Words, like the hands of a skilled bodyworker, can draw your attention to something previously …

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: The complete yet ongoing experience that there is anything happening at all (whatever the flavour, …

: Mostly spending today chopping wood and carrying water… 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

: I am incredibly prejudiced. When I see the ‘technical advisors and custodians’ of Free Our Feeds …

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: “The mind chases experiences the way a dog chases squirrels: compulsively. The mind thinks (thinks!) …

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: “Love is an action. But the action happens by itself. There is no doer. Love is not an activity; …

: Working the late shift again tonight so no meditation group tonight sadly. 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

: There are no other lives that any of us could be living. 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

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: “A political situation is the manifestation of a parallel psychological problem in millions of …

: “It is in the nature of political bodies always to see the evil in the opposite group, just as the …

: Really trying my hardest to watch Megalopolis but I fear Coppola might have left us with, as his …

: None of these clever, well written books have the answer because there are no answers. 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

: We can never know what we are. We can only be what we are. 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

: In the spirit of prevention being better than cure I think it behooves all of us to acknowledge our …

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: Always open, never landing… 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

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: The divine right of tech billionaires… The Dark Enlightenment

: There are no absolutes, ultimates or fundamentals in nature – only at the limits of our perceptions. …

: Every single life is expressing something. 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

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: Well, well. How serendipitous! No more than a couple of hours after my earlier post this quote falls …

: Ouch! Managed to ‘brand’ my arm on the door of the log burner last night. It hurt at the time but it …

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: Brilliant, as ever, from @annie ”In my experience, having courage feels like a cross between bungee …

: “I don’t know” sounds like an ending but is actually always the best place to start… 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

: The only way is through… 📷 photo thumbnail

: The best teacher of all is the present moment. 🧘‍♂️ ☯️

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: Getting back to yoga tonight was such good feeling. A really nice vibe with some lovely guys in a …

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: I am grateful for a life that is small but infinite. 🧘‍♂️☯️

: Thinking about the cost of being persistently aware of global news about which we can have no input, …

: This. The only true goal is boredom Minus the incorrect assertion that Buddhism seeks to detach one …

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: Toast in her happy place, on a sheepskin rug. 15 years, 10 months and counting… 🐕 photo thumbnail

: For me meditation and contemplation are synonymous. Practice is continuous in the midst of life. To …

: Another beautiful post from Mike Farley, this time on impermanence and the interdependence of life …

: Here’s to the new Reeder app Time for a long overdue shout out to the new Reeder app. I haven’t seen Iconfactory’s Project … photo thumbnail

: Just seen A Real Pain. A good movie. Learned that Kieran Culkin is brilliant at playing himself. …

: A busy day, a long walk and now a roaring fire…

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: Very curious to see Roberts Eggers’ Nosferatu remake. Mixed reviews but I always enjoy his work, …

: “What we’re really in the business of doing is helping people stay with the thoughts and feelings …

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: Happy to have booked my first yoga class of the year. It will be good to get back on the mat …

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: When work is flow it’s no longer work.

: “When there is nothing left, the way opens. Only when you can sit still in the ruins of all you had …

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: “Nobody needs to go anywhere else. We are all, if we only knew it, already there.” — Aldous Huxley …

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: Only just made it in to work this morning. The combination of snow melt and overnight rain has …

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: Just made it home as the snow started to settle and deepen. Switched to a later shift tomorrow so …

: “Thoughts arise and fall as flowers live and wilt. Stars fade over eons in the night sky and clouds …

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: Listening to Zen teacher and psychoanalyst Barry Magid’s Ordinary Mind. Excellent so far. Within … photo thumbnail

: This seemed like a suitable companion for the cold and dark drive to work this morning. “Dark and … photo thumbnail

: “Zen is feeling life, not something about life.” — Alan Watts 🧘‍♂️

: Experience without language. Wordless being. 🧘‍♂️

: Thoughts and feelings are not a problem. Believing they are is. 🧘‍♂️

: Can’t believe it’s a year since I last watched Luke Littler in the final of the PDC World …

: “Human memory, driven by emotional self-interest, goes to extraordinary lengths to provide evidence …

: “Remembering and fiction-making are virtually indistinguishable.” “Remembering his country, he …

: “I know of nothing more difficult than knowing who you are and having the courage to share the …

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: Just checking the weather for the next couple of days and it looks like I could quite easily get …

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: Probably the most underrated feeling or state of mind that contributes subtlety but most powerfully …

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January 2023

: We become what we give our attention to.

: Let the nettle sting be. Who are we to claim it as ours?

: When we truly lose the overbearing sense of a self, what is left naturally inclines towards others.

: When we say we can’t take anymore what we’re really saying is we don’t want anymore.

: Don’t wait to be taught. Let your own intuition and insights guide you.

: Words and images have meaning in contrast to reality which simply is meaning.

: The real benefits of contemplative inquiry appear when we let go of acquiring any.

: It’s the holding on that hurts, not the letting go.

: Beware spiritual materialism. The subtle, seductive tendency to turn the formless, not only into …

: It is what we do when we don’t know, don’t understand what we are doing.

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: We deceive ourselves by thinking it can’t be this obvious, this simple, this effortless. It is our …

: The eternal unfolding of the infinite everything includes the arising of the futile attempts to …

: Can we be still and attend to this open awareness without describing or narrating?

: We don’t experience things in the present. We are experience and presence simultaneously without …

: When we truly and honestly inquire into the present moment with open awareness, without concepts or …

: Notice how we don’t experience time in the same way as we experience bodily sensations. When we …

: “True freedom is the end of separation, this moment of life without ‘I’. The presence revealed …

: Life lives us without effort. We need do nothing to be fully alive. We can’t stop it, we can’t make …

: Can we take responsibility for the truth we find when we let go of wanting things to be other than …

: When our minds are open and not constricted by the blinkers of small ego, we realise there is wisdom …

: I love this insight from Amoda Maa: “…the willingness to surrender the argument with what is: to …

: “Falling into openness—a dissolution of the psychological knot of ego—is the doorway to freedom.” …

: If, sometimes, we must hold, hold lightly with gentle tenderness, full in the knowledge that that is …

: Whatever state of mind you find yourself in, rather than focussing on the content or the description …

: That which is undoubtedly here yet utterly inconceivable.

: What seekers are seeking is not ‘out there’ beyond but right here, right now before everything, even …

: Nothing is fixed or stable including us and our fantastical flights of fancy about identity and …

: There is no mistaking the raw actuality of this moment, right here, right now. Everything else is …

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: If we attend closely and carefully enough we can observe how we take refuge and hide and imprison …

: All forms reveal emptiness and emptiness reveals all forms. Not two, not oneness, just difference …

: As ever, beginning again.

December 2022

: Attend to the present moment carefully and closely enough and find everything that happens appears …

: The present moment will never let you down. Everything else will.

: The fear of death is the same as any other story we believe to be true. Just a story we have made up …

: This, this that is undeniable, self evident and simply here is ungraspable and without form or …

: All memories pale in comparison to the vibrant, visceral actuality of this moment of vivid …

: Thinking - the original virtual reality.

: We attribute fixed meanings to the ever changing phenomenal world. No wonder all meanings fail in …

: Pleasure or pain. Relaxation or anxiety. There is nothing confusing about the present moment until …

: Awareness is not beyond doubt or question because it is already present before either arise.

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: “Feel your feet on the ground – listen and look.” John Butler

: Awareness includes everything and clings to nothing. We might call that unconditional love. Joan …

: Who exactly are you filing that complaint with?

: What does the statement: ‘I deserve…(insert what you think you deserve) actually mean?

: In the the condition of empty awareness, when the illusion of ego self is clearly seen through, what …

: Difference without separation.

: Thinking negatively, thinking positively - it’s still all just magical thinking and prone to the …

: Nothing special. Ordinary awareness in the midst of life.

: There is nothing we can think that can solve the problems that thought creates.

: We love to meet the stories we hear with our own stories instead of just sharing the truth of what …

: See through the leading character (the ego) in our story and the whole narrative collapses.

: You Don’t Have To Suffer Anymore You Don’t Have To Suffer Anymore

: Time is Thought Time is Thought by Dr Amy Johnson

: No path, no way, no method, no technique that endures. Everything changes. Only the ever present raw …

: This timeless present moment of eternal reality right now reveals everything we need to know about …

: We can recognise a great teaching to be true when it points away from itself to the heart of truth …

: Buddhism isn’t about becoming a Buddhist or even Buddhism. It’s about recognising the nature of your …

: When truly sought Even the seeker cannot be found. Thereupon the goal of the seeking is attained, …

: Listen, trust and learn from yourself. Ultimately we are our own best teachers.

: I have nothing to say and I am saying it and that is poetry as I need it. John Cage

: Shifting out of our world of images and stories about ourselves and the world is simple but hard, …

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: If we are anything we may say we are fields of potentiality.

: We can discover everything we need to know about ourselves by observing how we behave when no one is …

: The universe includes us but isn’t about us.

: Others suffer because we suffer.

: Everything minus the ego.

: The non dual condition is fundamentally paradoxical. As quantum phenomena are real but make no …

: ‘Awareness’ is a word that points to the seeing that is never divided into seer and seen. Joan …

: Walking into each moment without history or expectation.

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: The only way one really gets any of the most important benefits of meditation practice is by giving …

: Enlightenment is the end of the one who cares about being enlightened or unenlightened.

: What is beyond doubt takes no effort to maintain.

: “The entirety of practical spirituality consists of distinguishing fantasy from actuality. …

: The entirety of practical spirituality consists of distinguishing fantasy from actuality. The …

: This. This, that is utterly inconceivable and yet totally obvious and impossible to avoid. Joan …

: Thoughts are stories. Emotions are energy. Connect the two and cling to either or both creates …

: Stories are sophisticated patterns and we have evolved to create patterns out of chaos to survive. …

: We are constantly told that we love stories. I would amend that to; we are addicted to stories. …

: Nihilism is just another story. Open awareness is that which is prior to, and allows for, all …

: The fewer stories and narratives we have running in our minds the freer we become.

: As open awareness, walking along a deserted beach or a tranquil field is no different than being in …

: Whatever this is, cannot be pulled apart, divided or separated.

: Liberation is the aliveness and immediacy beyond belief. Liberation is when all the answers, …

: Since our first breath thoughts, feelings, concepts, ideas and experiences have come and gone over …

: This is always it.

: Suffering is feedback, showing us that we’re attached to ideas and thoughts that appear true, but …

: If we persist in looking to get or obtain something, anything from ourselves, others and the world …

: What stories are we going to believe and invest in about ourselves and the world today? What forms …

: Thoughts, ideas, theories, concepts, and stories are all for nought without the rigorous practice of …

: What is fear of death but a complicated tangle of images and stories about everything except the …

: Dissolving or seeing through the fabricated ego self automatically frees us from craving and …

: Allow everything without holding onto anything.

: Egos meet and remain separate but open, aware minds share presence.

: As Beckett was exquisitely aware, all language fails attempting to capture the formless absolute.

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: Enlightenment, awakening, recognition, realisation, whatever, is not an answer, has no answers …

: Deconstructing the self automatically opens us to boundless possibilities.

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: Myriad holograms of meaning come and go, arise and fade away over and over and over and yet the …

: No arrival, no conclusion, no ending, just perpetual freshness and unknowing.

: This includes us but is not about us.

: The illusion of a spiritual journey is just more hinderance, more occlusion of the infinite ground …

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: With complete recognition of open awareness the need for the crutches of meaning, purpose and …

: Data, information, knowledge - none have anything to do with wisdom.

: In spite of the famous phrase: ‘There must be more to life than this’, there is actually no more to …

: The infinite — the only condition where logic and paradox dwell without conflict.

: There are infinite ways to recognise the infinite.

: Things to be interested in come and go but the raw unmediated actuality of the present moment is …

: Whenever we look, whatever we witness is simply what is here now and that is always everything and …

: Trust not knowing.

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: Words and images, words and images, so many, seemingly endless words and images describing and …

: The problems of thought are not clarified by more thinking. A ruler trying to measure itself…

: No hope nor fear here. Just what is.

November 2022

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: Nothing here now will remain.

: The weather alters our mood only to the extent to which we indulge the ideas and concepts that it …

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: There is no elephant in the room. The elephant is the room.

: Here language always fails. Sometimes beautifully, sometimes less so But always unable to touch what …

: The anxiety and fear of a week ago is gone. Traces remain as ever-diminishing memory. Then as now, …

: Cold. Darkness. Street lights. Stillness. An alarm. Distant shouting. The merest hint of dawn.

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: There is no right or wrong time nor right or wrong place.

: Open. Open to what is. Open to what is not. Open to everything and open to nothing at all. Open to …

: Whatsoever is your attitude towards life will be your attitude towards death… What is the Zen …

: None of this is about happiness or sadness, joy or sorrow, hope or despair per se. It is whatever we …

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: This includes us but is not about us.

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: The ordinary. The everyday. The shit on my shoe.

: Break the identification with thought and there is simply what is, and that includes thought too.

: To say that one is ‘spiritual’ is just more identification with something, sometimes any ‘thing’ …

: What is sought is not beyond. It is that which is already fully present before anything. Before joy, …

: There is nothing to be gained… that is all. There is nothing to be gained.

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: There is no more or less life to be had anywhere other than right here, right now.

: Wherever and however we are is where must always begin again.

: Not knowing is true wisdom.

: Meditation techniques are easy to practise because they have a form. Awareness is harder because it …

: Knowledge and ignorance are both untrue, nothing but dream and illusion — the nonduality of true and …

: The truth of the moment is beyond all thoughts, all feelings, all ideas, all concepts, all systems, …

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: Doing nothing but with full attention and awareness.

: Once you realise you’re distracted, that you’ve been thinking without knowing you’ve been thinking, …

: Meaning and purpose are just a distracted person's imaginary friends. Sam Harris

: Nowhere to go but here. All journeys lead home.

: If I am anything, I am the totality of everything and nothing that is and isn’t happening in this …

: Hanging, weightless in open awareness.

: Clinging to no tradition. Seeing through each of them to the common unicity of all of them.

: Darkness, wind and rain. The drip, drip, drip from a broken gutter.

: The dark night of the unknown. The steps one knows one has to take and the associated fear.

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: Responsibility.

: I feel this is the heart of meditation: Simply being interested in what is here – being more …

: The dog, snoring at my feet. Loud chatter coming through the wall from next door. The smell of …

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: The silence of not knowing.

: No doer nor nothing to be done.

: No thought can improve what is already here.

: We don’t have ideas, ideas have us. Carl Jung

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: In times of trauma I have no idea what I’m doing except somehow saving myself.

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: Sitting, wondering at the beauty of existence but also inquiring into the horrors here too.

: Pain yet complete aliveness.

: What is the duration of this moment? Does it last only until the the next instance of inattention?

: This is always it.

: Roaring tinnitus this morning in my now blocked, deaf left ear. My experience of the world is now …

: A solitary lamp illuminating the corner of the room. Ringing, hissing tinnitus; shrill, clean and …

: I am very lucky to have a job in which I spend most of the time in a state of flow. No distracting, …

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: Noticing that which would otherwise have gone unrecognised.

: This is neither special nor ordinary as these words are referring to that which defies all …

: AE’s clear, bright eyes. Full of life lacking nothing but sight.

: Each of us has our own story about death and grief but in the end that’s all they are. Distracting …

: One fire unfolding as infinite flames.

: The fire again. Crackling and sputtering a fuss over damp logs. The dog is here, still but watchful. …

: Snoozing…

: There is no Buddhism here, no Zen, no Advaita, no Dzogchen, no awakening, no enlightenment, no …

: The raw, unmediated pain of grief of an individual I support at work. There are few if no words that …

: Nowhere to go but here, where everything and nothing already are.

: Birth, life and death are not personal but we make them so Who are we to claim them as our own? …

: On my way to work this morning, just letting everything unfold without explanation, rhyme or reason: …

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: Early start. Still dark. Silence but for the ticking clock and the hum of the fridge.

: An evening spent in good conversation with my wonderful wife. Happily fuelled by a bottle of Baileys …